What does a man looking at the continuing struggles of his beloved woman with the weight? How to convince her that his eyes are attractive and unique regardless of its carcass? Prior to such dilemmas for many years became Mark Golding, information from Chesterfield. And with the other millions of men around the world.Since the married, slept with many women: thick, thin and all intermediate sizes. Such, at least the impression. My wife Sarah is almost twenty years, diet, gaining only a yo-yo effect. From the lean figure of a size number 38 went to morbid obesity, reaching a size of 54 (...) One day I was eating dinner with a beautiful, slim girl, a few months later I was sitting in the cinema next to a woman so thick that the difficulty was in the chair. The yo-yo effect does not only change her appearance. Also changing her personality. When is thin, feels satisfied with life and self-confident when get fat, is depressed and irritable - and I was overwhelmed the total helplessness. Sarah is still for me the woman he once fell in love, regardless of how it looks. But our relationship is dominated by the next diet. We met in 1986 in a nightclub. Sarah wore a size 38 then We started to meet and sitting hours in restaurants - I was very pleased that Sarah liked good food. We got married in August 1988 and quickly began to lead a comfortable lifestyle. Often made use of to-go prepared meals or romantic dinners we ate in restaurants. I was lucky - the increase in 178 cm and 80 cm at the waist I could eat everything that I wanted without fear that gain weight. By contrast, Sarah started to gain weight. - I believe in what I eat - she said.
Two years after marrying Sarah finds out that she is pregnant. When her body, I liked even more than before. Eating for two, consuming huge portions of food during meals, in addition to snacks. I thought that this act, all pregnant women. When our son was born to Jake and Sarah have already wore size 48, and her weight reached up to 95 kilograms - far too much when it was 162 cm tall. Wife decided to slim and began to count calories. Ate mostly salads and fruits, so it soon began to lose weight. I lost weight by next year 12 more pounds and reached a size of two smaller numbers. Again, this was a self-satisfied woman he knew before. Then it turned out that once again pregnant.
In 1993, when our daughter was born Milly, Sarah once again put on his old leggings in size 48 Promised myself that will go on a diet, but this time everything looked different. Instead of gradually lose weight, lose a few pounds and then assumed the weight twice as much. When I opened the packet of crisps, warned her that he would regret. However, rather than thank me, furious. And to make me angry, ate another package. So I learned to hold his tongue. I saw that it was not satisfied with their statues, but I did not have the courage to encourage her to lose weight me that it points out the extra kilograms. - How can you love me? - She asked. It was inconceivable to her. She could not bear her body, but I still loved her. Slimming World Diet, Guardians of Balance, the Atkins diet - Sarah exploring them all. One year I lost weight almost 40 pounds but regained it shortly afterwards with interest. For me, the matter was simple: Sarah should eat three meals a day and refrain from snacks. But she secretly eat a "junk food". I was so sorry that it hides from me. - You do not understand - she cried. She was right, I did not understand. In my opinion, just what Sarah needed a healthy lifestyle. However, it believed that dieting in this way have lasted centuries. One day be able to wear size 38, and a few months later, has reached to 46 When the size of her clothes more than 44, was increasingly depressed. Hours watched himself in the mirror and ask if it looks thick. When I answered that yes, I argued that I am wrong. If I said 'no', complained to me that I lie. This question simply was not a good answer. Buying clothes was a nightmare. During the period when she weighed the most - almost 130 kilograms, the size of 54 - was trying blouses and shirts size of a small tent. I spoke to her in spirit: "Do not you buy this, it is terrible." But Sarah had such a limited choice, I had no right to say anything. I remember one day standing in our bedroom, crying, because he chose to accept the friends and it turned out that there is no longer located. In the end decided not to go anywhere, put a black sack dress pants and an enormous T-shirt. She was so depressed that and it got me very sad. Sarah has never ceased to please me - I love her, after all, not only for how it looks. But when its size is larger than 46, our sex life dead. Most just gave me a quick kiss good night. Considered that it is unattractive and did not believe that he could pull me sexually, so she turned to me. I still wanted her, loved her, but in such situations, lying near her, I thought to myself - if only she managed to shed a few kilograms of these ... I was not at all about that it is ugly, just when slim became more confident. Today, Sarah is 40 years and this time is slim. The first time in many years, I believe that this will be. LighterLife plan applies, a rigorous program of diet, which helps to lose weight, exercise also assisted therapist. Initially worried, because the program involves the replacement of normal meals specially designed cocktails and soups. But Sarah tried in the past, much stranger things, like eating only grejphruts. This time I can simply support. Over the past ten months Sarah I lost weight 60 kilograms and now weighs around 63 kilograms. I am really proud of it. The issue of her diet for too long dominated our lives. And I just want us to be happy.