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 After this, to feel feminine lover capable of love and sex do not have to wonder in the eyes of a man - just to appreciate each other, accept each other as a whole. How do we know that mature to love? We open up at each other, on your body, the intimate relationship. And the whole world. Open heart. Yes, the layers of pain you're feeling beat, an open heart.
Dissolving the old deposits of fear, pain, anger and hatred, we reach the very essence of self, the heart is. Along with the ability to accept yourself as a whole, with a shadow, injuries, difficult feelings, we become ripe for life in its diversity and fullness. Our heart opens to the deeper dimensions of existence - includes the dimension of personal, intimate relationships, relationships, community and compassion, but also our relationship with the earth and all creation. Since then, live life in a particular way - they are given the sensitive consciousness. Associations that we create, are the litmus test of the quality of our love. If you do not have good practices, we love can be confused with the possession and use of other people to their own needs. A young woman comes to the circle of women. Which brings experience with him? Modern girls and young women are the pressure to lose their virginity as soon as possible. Give the boys and men for scraps of acceptance, a nucleus of feelings. It is often the case. Give your body the illusion of love. The first is sometimes careless, hasty. In the circle of talk about themselves, reveal the pain associated with that. Share their shame, something hard and dark. They say: "let the advantage, he surrendered to violence, I was raped." Rape is an experience many young women, which is not always as older sisters and mother know. The ritual of telling the truth about their experiences is a healing force: Finally, someone said I was not condemned for it, I was heard, understood and accepted. Then comes the ritual of purification. In old cultures, purification rituals are associated with water. Women can sense this intuitively. After telling his story asking to wash them in the river with traces of harassment by uncles, cousins, neighbors, priests. Or the belief that the body, sexuality, are sinful. A young woman hears from other women: "Do not you should." Dumps dress symbolizes old skin, then a woman dressed in her new dress. After the opening ceremony of purification in the inner space of a truly intimate relationship, to love. The woman is "transferred" circle of men - and then usually says so: "I stopped being afraid of men. I felt much delicacy and sensibility lies in their hearts, I could hear them howling yearning for love. " This ceremony is accompanied by singing and spontaneous dancing by the fire disasters. "It was night in the middle of a big fire burned clearings - says one woman. - I started to dance in a circle of people who have expressed my feelings locked, the fears. Thanks to the woman who played the role of Aphrodite - the goddess of love, went to the other side, the circle of women who symbolized the various aspects of my femininity - her mother, creator, warrior, lover and savage. Women my body and the fragrant oil danced together to the awakening of the senses. The ecstatic moment was interrupted by a sudden my cry-beck and call to her husband-lover. Women led me to the circle of men, where my feminine energy in a symbolic way merged with male energy. Again, I felt wonderful in the role of her husband's mistress. "Another woman who felt that too much control your body and can not give a wave of pleasure, surrendered to the ritual cleansing of the old fear of sex, which was supposed to be dangerous and prohibited. She felt that her sexuality is innocent and divine, and denounced this affirmation. After this, to feel feminine lover capable of love and sex, you do not need to be appreciated by a man - just be yourself. Women's Circle gives a special space for themselves in the experience dimension. How do I create a space in everyday life? We, the women generally need intimacy, spiritual connection and trust, to be able to experience the passion and pleasure. So we can go back to old habits so that they draw from the wisdom tame your body and heart to the maturing of love. In many cultures girls before marriage prepared for the adoption man. He says, for example, that India had a tradition: from the first menstruation the girl regularly fasted in the context of future intentions. How to tame our children and young people with love and sex? Man is born to love. Sentience of love is a natural and sacred right of every child. Learn to love the empathy and compassion. One must be careful to not to condemn manifestations of sexuality, if the child meets the body by touching them. Talk about corporeality, sexuality, the intimate dimension of life. Our daughter, girls and young women seem to be lost, not knowing what direction to go, do not mature to love and good, combined with the heart, and sex. Where to look for wise Guiding? . Not only girls are lost, young people in general. For years I write about that in mainstream education is necessary to create the path of initiation. Young people can not cope with the awakening love and sexual energy. Immersed in ignorance and fear of Brno in the dark. Have no adult support. Emotions turn to sexual aggression and violence - to themselves and others because they do not know what to do. Of course, they need wise guide who could accompany them in the changes and challenges of growing up time. Revival of indigenous rituals can be a valuable complement to education in the era of consumption confident that ravages the hearts and souls of our children and destroy the fabric of relations of the Community. Are increasingly organized workshops initiation for boys and girls. Young people spend time close to nature, are difficult to undergo tests, and learn to talk about their feelings and desires. Guides to help them recognize aggression and sexual energies and transform them into the drive to full power, the creative act. Experience intimacy, Community Action, which develop the ability. Have a chance to share them with others, to experience the support and friendship. |
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We have 23 guests onlineEach of us has his concept of love and understands it differently, because there are so many definitions, how many people live in the world. Deep in human nature lies the need of proximity of another man. One of the most beautiful feelings, which may experience a man is love. The bond between two people of the opposite sex, it is still unfathomable mystery, but is repeated thousands of years. Still do not know why? Love is often insidious and ruthless, engages us, despite the disadvantages of the object of our affection, and even covering up its deficiencies, and often shows us his beautiful and better than it is in reality. Seeking a sense of acceptance as a complement to the common bond.
Divorce and what's next
If a woman feels hurt the departure of a partner, especially if her confidence had been abused by him, beyond the bitterness and pain for this reason there is often the desire to play on it for what it did. Can of course be extended indefinitely the process of divorce, fight a court battles over the division of property, weaned him from feeling and faith in the company of friends, but the most severe "punishment" turns out to be separating him from the child. A child needs both parents, as each of them completely different role in his life. Also needs a sense of security, the belief that despite their separation by each of them is still loved and supported them.
Playing with Fire
Statistics on divorce shows that their number is increasing from year to year. Among the reasons for that, next mentioned in the previous years, such as marital infidelity, alcohol abuse, reprehensible attitude toward family members, housing problems, incompatibility of character, lack of sex, longer separation of spouses and the differences in outlook (percentage faint but there) has established a new categories: social networking on the Internet. Like any other medium, the Internet can be used both in positive and negative.
Holiday Love
A non-binding initial knowledge, freed from the control of their environment allows for any creative yourself, try new behaviors, the disclosure of covert expectations so far, all in a beautiful natural setting, the rhythm flowing unhurriedly time. The personal history of many an adventure holiday in the album recalls dried flower that evokes the memory of pleasant memories of joyful years. But sometimes, too, that instead of the serene image of this episode from the past appears as a sad, sad, and sometimes traumatic, involving abuse, fraud and destroys trust in the human manipulation.