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 When a partner still meets with another woman, or constantly talking on the phone, the girl may feel jealous, even though he says it's only friendship. Why is it so difficult to accept the friends of our partners? Where does male-male friendship? This is one of the more complex relationships.
Friendship built years capable of bearing the heaviest trials without it life is empty. Friends give us the strength and sense of security. Only they can understand us without any unnecessary words, even if we had not seen since weeks. Sometimes, however, that becomes the reason of conflicts with our partners, especially if the soulmate is the opposite sex. Why is it easier to accept our friend our partner, than a friend, even a hundred times fiance assured that between them had never been intimate relationship? According to psychotherapist, there is usually a concern that even if the opposite sex between friends there is no sexual relationship now, do not conceive in the future. Partner, as outsiders observer can also see that one of the parties through gestures or manner of speaking, violates the intimate space, to which only she is entitled. Then the behavior of our male friends, or friend of women, raises the suspicion that he expects something more than just friendship. If our soul mate of a man we know only from stories, their friendship is happening outside of us, it can arouse anxiety and uncertainty. An element of mystery creates space for speculations, doubts and anxiety. But before we do a scene of jealousy and let us make the partner an ultimatum: "it, or I," ask yourself: What I know about their relationship? Why is this person is so important for my husband may have known from childhood, or perhaps someone who greatly helped him and they are important for themselves as human beings. The best so it is best to know a friend of her boyfriend or girl friend and try to call it, which is difficult for us to accept in their relationship.Two women and one man Raphael, a fiance Angeles said, "my sister". When I got to know Angela thought, how nice is a friend of my boyfriend, nice and warm. In her presence felt in the air, a maternal protectiveness. She had a husband and a 7-year old child. Sometimes met in a foursome, or with friends. Angela thought that is an intelligent, wise woman, that is something to talk about. Most, however, spoke with her boyfriend. I once saw each other almost every day, lived in the same city, together studied pedagogy at the same time, a smaller city decided to move to Warsaw. Began to meet less frequently, when she married and gave birth to a child. But as I have already met, it could not backbite. I wondered what they are still talking. Raphael said, even once, that he lacks the meetings with she. I felt a little twinge of jealousy, but I thought, though: I have it every day, it only on special occasions, so let them spend time together a moment. I said: but know almost from childhood, she married another man, and Raphael is with me, if they wanted to be together, it would have been a long time. I tried to convince myself that I have no reason to envy. Today, only I know how much I was wrong - says Angela. It happens that friends do not know how to find the new situation, because when he had a girl, was only for a friend. Behave as if nothing has changed: in the middle of the night calling to tell on film what they were, or to confide with their problems. Forget that girl friend might interfere. - It is important to make space for friendship, for your life partner. Friendship based on honesty, so our partner's friend should explain that her behavior spoils his relationships in the relationship. This relationship does not depend primarily on the fact that we call each other at any time of meals and night, but primarily on the willingness to understand feelings and to help a friend. We can not see each other every day, but we know that as we continue to need support, we can count on each other. Think to yourself: "How would I feel if my a woman telephoned the night another man?". Do not let us, however, with pretensions to a friend of our partner. Attention to the, because he has ensured good relations in conjunction . After three years of knowledge of Raphael and Angela decided to get married. Anne came into the world. Renata began to deteriorate. More often thought of divorce and, increasingly, Raphael comforted her. Angeles explained that his friend is in a very bad mental state that can not be her "sisters" in need of leave, that no friend so not done. - No need to be able to leave her friend, but he could leave his wife with a child. The afternoon he worked on weekends had a post-graduate studies, so little time left over for us being together. I felt like a mother, single parents with a child - says Angela. When the marriage broke up Raphael spent with his girlfriend more and more time. Angela had the impression that it is always between them. Still calling home, sending SMS and e-mails. Her son was already a teenager, then went to the cinema and meeting with friends. Angela stayed at home with the child. She felt increasingly lonely. I believe that it does not sleep with him. Despite this, we live in a bizarre triangle. I'm jealous of the time that my husband spends with another woman. I would prefer to devote it to me and our child. At some point, I discovered that my husband's emotional relationship with his girlfriend is a lot stronger than me. Still reiterates that he who loves me, and she is like a sister that demonize that exaggerating, that it meets with no more than twice a week, that after Sunday is no longer just for us. But I feel that lose with this woman. Our marriage is poured. I hate it that it takes my husband - says Angela. We argue that we are entitled to expect from our partners that will take care of our sense of security. We lose them when you create a world with a friend, to whom we do not have access. Partner may feel sorrow and bitterness that her being a man in connection with it has more experience and experience with another woman than with her. If the relationship is stable, gives a sense of security, hours of talking with each other, the common life is attractive to us, then the relationship with another woman will not be a threat. We know that our partner does not build with it something that is not in our relationship. If there is a void, a partner is based on a friend, she may become a rival. In this case, we take a look at our union, consider what it is missing. What are the emotional needs of our partner carries out an association? Why can not meet this with me? And it's not about to a sense of guilt, but to see what can be changed for the better. Caroline and Adam have known each other from high school. Were friends since forever. When Carolina had problems with men, not confided to his colleagues, but to Adam. Who better to explain the behavior of a man than another man. He was able to comfort her, like no other. Do not sweeten, but he is what he thinks. He had many friends, on weekends he played with them in football and went for a beer, but when his mother died, first called the Carolinas, he always walked with their problems to her. Time seemed right, and dreamed that they would have shared a law firm. Just got Carolina, Adam finally decided on the economy. Their contacts loosened a bit when he went to work in London. - I missed him terribly. I missed his wise counsel and the absurd sense of humor - said Caroline. After three years, Adam returned to home. Again, they had daily contact. In the new work met Maria. Carolina heard a lot about it. Adam was fascinated by it, said what is beautiful, smart and so delicate. Carolina provides that came to her with sympathy. Found that the pleasure they talked, had that to enjoy. The meeting, the meeting but felt that the atmosphere is increasingly tense. Realized that her girl friend did not like her and at one point no longer wanted to hide it. When I met the three of us conspicuously ignored Carolina. - I would give up the chopped Adam, but I do not love you. I never wanted to be with him. He also did not make any gestures in this direction. I talked with Adam, that somehow it is all explained. Not much is possible. Since I know Adam, he had the three girls. Do not give up my friend, because she will It is too important man in my life - says Carolina. The conflict between friend and girlfriend led to the fact that do not meet together. Adam found himself between a rock and a hard place. Carolina told him that, as is arguing with his girlfriend, she removes it, but he protested. May also be such that the contacts of our partners do not exceed the permitted limit, but we have a pathological jealousy, which results from our low self-esteem, or past experiences. We have been abandoned, and today we are afraid that the situation persists. Then it is worth us to work together. It may happen that the partner does not leave us for another woman, but because it will not be able to withstand. Friendship is a higher driving school. You can quickly fall in love, friendship, often built over the years, it is so valuable and difficult to abandon it. However, to maintain the friendship between a woman and a man, when one of them or both are in a relationship, have the maturity of each party. |
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