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 For some it is a drama, for other roll with butter, even something desirable. It depends on the system of values and norms that the man confessed.  Most people would have only for himself, wants to be the only one loved person.

Therefore, intimate contact, whether the bestowal by the partner's feelings of another person is always painful. At the same time you never know whether the betrayal is not an introduction to break the union. Even if a partner is often rightly suspected that his decision is clear from the evidence did not emotional. Although treason is generally considered sexual contact with a person from outside the union, but in many cases, greater damage done to the emotional relationship with the latter, although both did not decide to intimate contacts.  Emotional betrayal The widespread belief that ethical standards apply, what man does, not what he feels. For many people, love is never a bad thing. Lend themselves to feeling. "I fell in love, but do not sleep with her (him), so do not betray your spouse." Cheated on a person may simply not believe in or similar to ensure reasonable to assume that in the case of strong emotional ties to go to bed is just a matter of time. Always an emotional relationship with another person, regardless of the motives which are guided by the two parties, involves the desire to stay as long as possible in the company of the beloved. Meetings tend to be long, and increasingly needed. All the time and expense of the needs of existing partners. No wonder that he feels deceived. For many people it is not what lovers do with each other or sleeping together or not. Matter what they feel to each other, and how important is their close relationship, and how many emotions involved in it. These people are jealous of the partner's feelings, not his body. Sexual Betrayal Difficult to separate sex from emotion, therefore, sexual betrayal is associated with emotional betrayal. In this situation, no one pretends that it does not do anything wrong, and betrays no partner. However, in most cases, the betrayal is associated with sex without getting emotional. Many people sporadic sexual contacts not considered even as a betrayal. "And let the fun ..." "It's a good influence on our relationship ..." "I also do the same thing ..." - people so often acknowledge betrayal partner. In many environments, slightly approaches to treason. At the same time treated more tolerant of betraying a man than a woman. This follows from the belief of many researchers who that man is by nature polygamous and monogamous women. Proof of this is to be the fact that in a world society are more polygamous than monogamous, and society occurred rarely and they are not among the developed societies. With this view does not agree with the liberal feminist organizations, believing that the woman is the same as the polygamous man.

Causes of infidelity  Modern man accustomed to thinking that it should be so lucky and live in constant pursuit of happiness. For many men, happiness consists in the acquisition of attractive women, thus coexist with multiple partners of frequently changing them. The company is regarded as, which often gives him a high position. More and more, this attitude professed by women. Very often boast in front of their new conquests. Less often do so in the company of men. Mass culture promotes so-called male type. "devourer of hearts," and women. Many of the people bombing paving newspapers numerous romances big stars in such a way as to make them standout. Their lack of fidelity is not a fault, but rather relies on their sexual attractiveness of the opposite sex. Many try to emulate promoted patterns in life, thinking that gives them not only happiness but also the success and fame like a fashionable idol.

Boredom in a stable relationship. Time expires, the partner becomes less and less attractive, intimate contacts are becoming routine, similar to each other. The new partner is an exciting new experience, it's hard to resist. Often such a "jump on the side" means that the current partner is becoming attractive again. Many people make this principle. Undoubtedly, boredom is inherent in every respect, and the new partner will always be more attractive (at least in the short run) from the current. The only factor that prevents boredom and novelty seeking is a deep feeling of connecting two people. There are people for whom the symptoms of aging with a loved one, not only does not reduce its attractiveness, but rather making a new content relationship, deepening the bond not only emotional, but also sexual.  Conflicts and misunderstandings result in a stable relationship, that one party seeks the comforter to another person or escapes into the realm inaccessible to partner. For many people work or friends become a kind of refuge, the place they spend more time where they feel free. Partner feels neglected, the blame on him, family responsibilities, he is wrong but can not stick to anything. "What do you want, after all work as an ox on the family ..." "I have the right to meet friends ...".  Only needs a partner. This may relate to a situation where one party feels unloved, or is too little sensitivity, and if not met her needs are. For some, the lack of certain forms of sexual livable (eg, oral sex, anal ...) is so "severe" that they seek out their relationship. Either partner is unwilling or ashamed to cultivate this type of affection, or do not even know that the other side of their needs. People are often afraid or ashamed to talk about what they like and need for sex. There are also such cases that one party deliberately did not want to grow some petting with a permanent partner for fear of being accused of a tendency to sexual perversion. One often hears the statement: "Such vile a thing is not done with my wife ...." For some men practicing oral sex or reconciling the anal sex (more often) is considered to discredit a woman's honor, which is why they want to save before your permanent partner.  Revenge for the betrayal of a partner. Fairly common reaction to the harm suffered is the same reciprocation. Revenge when betrayed partner expects the other party will feel that at least as badly. But the consequences of retaliation rarely appear to be desirable. Retaliation can cure a partner with a sense of guilt or punish the avenger. Cognitive impulse. Curiosity is the driving force of learning, new discoveries, the continual expansion. Therefore, more people commit treason active, curious about the world and experiencing new sensations. Life without change is deadly for them. While others are unsure of the quality of their relationship. Decide to treason, to see how it is with someone else. It may happen that such a timid first attempt leads to the discovery of a great, unknown world, which greatly attracts and fascinates, for which throws everything without regret, but without mature reflection.  Syndrome. There are people, mostly men, who feel quite the need for "living in two houses." In each of them has its own pet shoes, personal belongings, and sometimes even children. Sex with both partners of implements, and even happens that betrays them to the third. In this case, the triple themes of betrayal are sometimes similar to those in those who have a permanent partner.

Making it easier for treason?

1. Opportunity. Asia trip, even the proverbial delegation. Finding himself alone with an attractive person of the opposite sex. A guarantee that they will not deliver. In such situations, women appear to be more resistant. Although, as someone once said: "If men were more discrete, it would be more infidel women.

2. Alcohol. Brooks moral barriers. The most resilient are those who drink a lot. They just do not think about sex already. Betray a partner with a bottle.

3. Urgings of friends. Especially those for which betrayed their partners became the rule. They often do not like people in their environment, which manages to be faithful.

4. Bombardment of sex in film, advertising, magazines. Slender body models are such that the steady partner did not already look with admiration.

5. Age. In young betrayal fosters uncertainty own attitudes and tastes, susceptibility to the influence of others, being more frequent among people of the opposite sex looking for a partner. In the elderly need to confirm their own attractiveness. Studies show that often betray the thirty men, and after thirty women.

How to behave when betrayal affects us? This question has no universal answer. Council to wait in style are good for those who love their partner and want to keep him with me, as well as they can forgive and forget. If they can not afford it have the right to demand separation. In law adultery is treated very seriously. It is the cause of every third divorce. In practice that happens more often for sure, because many people do not mention in his divorce betrayal as the cause of the dissolution of the association or divorced by mutual consent without giving reasons.

 
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